How do you deal with work and money for now and later in life? Do you live day by day or do you deliberately plan your financial future? And will you deal with “later in life” yourself, or are you part of a pension fund?
Ruud Vorstermans has been enjoying an excellent pension for the past year and a half. But he would trade it all in if it could bring back his wife.
Ruud Vorstermans (68)
Profession: retired, worked in automation and as a labor expert
Weekly hours: full-time
Income now: 3,200 Euros net per month
Saving: about 50,000 Euros
Pension arranged? Yes
You have been retired since August 2, 2019. How do you like it?
“I did not experience any black hole, even for a second. In fact, I don’t have enough time. I was really ready not to have to do all kinds of things anymore. That is also because, in addition to my work, I was the primary caregiver of my wife for years. She had metastasized breast cancer and died of that in 2018.”
That is sad, you must really miss her.
“Yes, my wife brought out the bet in me. We were married for nearly 43 years; what we had was unique. Of course, I miss her, but getting stuck there doesn’t help anything. Four weeks after her cremation, I went to Italy for a month with a camper. I traveled around Toscani, to places where we used to go together every year. A trip down memory lane. I enjoyed it a lot. I am keeping the memory of her alive. On our first wedding anniversary after her death, I got dressed up and went to her favorite restaurant, in a suit and tie and sat down with a picture of her across from me. I really enjoyed doing that and I still do it every year.”
How do you spend your days, now that you are no longer working?
“To start with, I walk and ride my bike a lot. I have made it into a daily routine to walk about seven kilometers. I ride an electric bike, because then I can also cycle on vacation in hilly landscapes. And I have given myself a new hobby: doing jigsaw puzzles by Jan van Haasteren. Once in a while, I buy a second-hand puzzle through Market Place or Facebook. If the seller lives within a 20-kilometer radius from where I live in Bergen op Zoom, I go and pick it up on my bike. That gives me a nice goal for my bike trip.”